Think and Do The Opposite
- anniemelbert
- Feb 1
- 4 min read
Updated: Apr 20

February 1, 2026
Fourth Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year A
Zephaniah 2:3; 3:12–13 | Psalm 146:6–7, 8–9, 9–10 | 1 Corinthians 1:26–31 | Matthew 5:1–12a
There's a classic episode of Seinfeld called "The Opposite," in which George Costanza, after years of failure in jobs, relationships, and life in general, has an epiphany: he realizes that every instinct he's ever had has been wrong. So, he decides to do the exact opposite of whatever his gut tells him. A beautiful woman sits down next to him at the diner, and instead of staying quiet or trying some clever line, he blurts out, "My name is George. I'm unemployed and I live with my parents!" She's intrigued, and he gets a date. When he starts telling off his bosses instead of groveling, he ends up landing his dream job with the New York Yankees. Everything in George's life suddenly works, and it's because he stopped following his usual human script and did the opposite.
I think about that episode every time I read the Beatitudes (stay with me here) because what Jesus preaches in today's Gospel is the exact opposite of everything the world tells us will make us happy. The world says: Be strong; be rich; be powerful. Crush your competition. Always look out for number one.
But Jesus walks up a mountainside, sits down, and says: "Blessed are the poor in spirit. Blessed are those who mourn. Blessed are the meek. Blessed are those who are persecuted." Excuse me — what?
If you wrote the Beatitudes on a motivational poster (without affixing Jesus to it), no one would buy it. If you pitched it as a self-help book, publishers would laugh you out of the room. The world's formula for happiness is accumulation: more money, status, followers, and more stuff. Jesus' formula is completely upside down. He says the path to blessing runs through poverty of spirit, through hunger for righteousness, through mercy and purity of heart, and through making peace. This isn't just poetic language — Jesus means it, and the rest of our readings today back him up as well.
Paul, writing to the Corinthians, puts it bluntly: "Consider your own calling, brothers and sisters. Not many of you were wise by human standards; not many were powerful; not many were of noble birth."
We can always count on St. Paul to make us feel good about ourselves! Then, he gives us the punchline: "God chose the foolish of the world to shame the wise, and God chose the weak of the world to shame the strong... so that no human being might boast before God."
God goes the opposite way of our human instincts. He doesn't recruit from the Ivy League. He doesn't scout the powerful and well-connected. He picks the people the world overlooks, and then accomplishes extraordinary things through them. Remember last week whom he chose for his 12 disciples, and why? So, it's crystal clear that the power comes from Him, not from us.
Zephaniah says the same thing six centuries earlier: "I will leave as a remnant in your midst a people humble and lowly, who shall take refuge in the name of the Lord."
Not the proud. Not the self-sufficient. The humble. The lowly. The ones who know they need God. If I’m being honest, this is really hard for me. I like being competent. I like having answers. I haven’t naturally gravitated toward "poor in spirit" or "meek" in my life. Most of us don't. We've been trained since childhood to be strong, independent, and successful, so admitting weakness feels like failure.
Please don’t misunderstand — Jesus isn't calling us to be doormats. Meekness isn't weakness; it's strength under control. Poverty of spirit isn't self-loathing; it's recognizing that everything we have is a gift from God. Mourning isn't despair; it's caring deeply enough about what's broken in the world to grieve it and see if we can fix it with God’s help.
The Beatitudes aren't a checklist for misery; they're an invitation to freedom in Christ Jesus, freedom from the race to “keep up with the Joneses,” freedom from the lie that your worth depends on your achievements, freedom to receive God’s blessing as a gift rather than a reward you've somehow earned.
The world says: Grab. Climb. Win. Jesus says in Matthew 6:33, “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things shall be yours as well.”
God’s promise, when we follow his formula, is that we will inherit the kingdom of heaven, will be comforted, will see God, and will be called children of God. George Costanza discovered that doing the opposite changed his life. Now, it was a comedy bit, but the principle still holds true. Jesus' rules and priorities are not of this world, and when we stop following the world's script and start following Jesus, everything changes.
Blessed are you. Not because you've got it all together, but because you don't — and you know that He does.



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